How to Win Her Heart…with Your Fingers (Pt. 2)

Monday, July 28th, 2008

Was out at happy hour at Midtown Continental earlier this week and got a girl’s phone number. She’s hot, and seems cool. The guys in Swingers say wait a week to call, but that seems dated. Now that texting is so popular…what are the expectations, and the best course of action (presuming I like her)?
Chris, [...]

How to Win Her Heart…with Your Fingers (Pt. 1)

Friday, July 25th, 2008

Dear Sex and the ILLY,
Was out at happy hour at Midtown Continental earlier this week and got a girl’s phone number. She’s hot, and seems cool. The guys in Swingers say wait a week to call, but that seems dated. Now that texting is so popular…what are the expectations, and the [...]

The Ruling on Online Dating (Pt. 2 - A Male’s Perspective)

Friday, June 27th, 2008

Online Dating (Cont’d from Part 1)
Arranged to meet a girl who looks like this?

Well, start looking around the bar for someone who looks like this:

The Set Up
So you asked about online dating, Pat. Bianca gives you the thumbs up. She says go for it. Well, from my point of view, here’s the question you [...]

How To Approach a Girl at a Bar Without Coming Off Like a Total Douchebag

Friday, June 13th, 2008

So guys…you know how we say “Let’s go out and meet some chicks”…and then you get to the bar, order beers, stand in a group of 6 in the corner, stare at girls, occasionally nudge each other and say “damn, that chick’s hot”, order some more beers, tell inside jokes, order more beers, and eventually [...]

Does Size Really Matter to a Girl?

Friday, May 30th, 2008

Dear Abby is dead. The rules for dating & sex that our parents and grandparents abided by are obsolete. Every Friday Jock Trotter and Bianca Porter will debate the “rules” for dating in the 21st century. You may email your questions to sexandtheilly@gmail.com.
Does size matter to a girl anymore, or have we busted that [...]

Bianca’s Blog: Bottoms Up

Friday, May 16th, 2008

Bianca Porter is the co-creator of Sex and the Illy. She will also be blogging for PhillyJock.com, beginning today with a slightly more personal introduction.
Hello, readers, in addition to the column I wanted to give you a little about me so tighten your seatbelts and enjoy the short ride. (You can get the long [...]