How to Win Her Heart…with Your Fingers (Pt. 2)

Monday, July 28th, 2008

Was out at happy hour at Midtown Continental earlier this week and got a girl’s phone number. She’s hot, and seems cool. The guys in Swingers say wait a week to call, but that seems dated. Now that texting is so popular…what are the expectations, and the best course of action (presuming I like her)?
Chris, [...]

How to Win Her Heart…with Your Fingers (Pt. 1)

Friday, July 25th, 2008

Dear Sex and the ILLY,
Was out at happy hour at Midtown Continental earlier this week and got a girl’s phone number. She’s hot, and seems cool. The guys in Swingers say wait a week to call, but that seems dated. Now that texting is so popular…what are the expectations, and the [...]

How To Approach a Girl at a Bar Without Coming Off Like a Total Douchebag

Friday, June 13th, 2008

So guys…you know how we say “Let’s go out and meet some chicks”…and then you get to the bar, order beers, stand in a group of 6 in the corner, stare at girls, occasionally nudge each other and say “damn, that chick’s hot”, order some more beers, tell inside jokes, order more beers, and eventually [...]

So That Bitch Cheated on You, Lied About it, Broke Your Heart - What Do You Do Now?

Friday, June 6th, 2008

Dear Abby is dead. The rules for dating & sex that our parents and grandparents abided by are obsolete. Every Friday Jock Trotter and Bianca Porter will debate the “rules” for dating in the 21st century. You may email your questions to sexandtheilly@gmail.com.
Dear S& I: I just found out that my girlfriend of 3 [...]